Advice

Its easy to give a friend advice. But when its you in that situation its difficult to take your own. Im sure youve all been there done that, we've all told our best friends to forget about him and you tell her she can do better and that her whole world will get better with time because 'times a healer' supposedly. But as soon as its you in that position, no one can change how you feel about that person. No one will know the special connection you had and how happy you used to feel. And you just cant feel differently or take on the advice.

My awful gift giving.

So as usual the eid ritual for me and my brother is buying each other surprise gifts! And my gifts where definitely more than a surprise. I opted for the safe 'I love you and Id like you to keep warm' kinda option. A nice warm cosy jumper. So to cut to the chase he bought me some speakers for my phone seen as hes sick of me playing my music from solely my phone- he hates the crappy songs I play first of all then he hates the crappy quality that comes out of it. So its a loose loose situation for him. Now at first when I saw these speakers...i didnt have the instant chemistry with them. I know that sounds deluded and your probably thinking they are only speakers right? But no these speakers are BLACK AND YELLOW- which brings this thing to a whole nother level. If any of you know my love for Wiz Khalifa youll know what I mean! I also forgot to mention I got some lovely grandad slippers and a gorgeous calvin klein hat and scarf set. So some of you may be reading this and be thinking- she needs to up her game in gift giving, but do any of you know how hard it is to buy for guys? Or maybe thats just my excuse!

I know its cheesy but seen as its bonfire night...its because baby your a fiiiireeework!

Ryan Gosling..need I say more?

This scene made me chuckle!

I need a place like this where I can escape to.

Define yourself

History is largely told as a chronicle of great people doing great things, but for most of us life is not made up of big moments, its made up of small moments. And with every choice and decision we are defining ourselves. Are we proud of ourselves or are we disappointed in who we've become? Life rarely turns out the way we’ve planned, the unexpected happens and surprises us with exciting new possibilities. Take the possibility and handle yourself with courage, ready to face each possibility or surprise. Life throws turns at us which hit us hard in the face. Either way handle yourself with dignity and grace.