Direction

Something in my life has got to change. I'm beginning to feel a little down. Surely mental health is only determined by outlook and perception. So my New Years resolution isn't going very well then. PMA positive mental attitude. That's one thing I lack in my life. But how is it that with whatever choice you make there is still no pleasing. So you know that by choosing plan A it won't make them happy. So instead you revert to plan B which is to continue with the way you were before, then you slowly start to realise that this is not it. That self fulfillment you'd hoped for just isn't quite there. You keep with plan B because it makes others happier, but the more you stay there in that unhappiness you and they both realise that no one is happy. So in which place do you win? Neither. That's the problem. The way I look at hapiness is that it's a temporary measure which cannot be sustained. It's not a destination, although one sometimes mistakenly perceives it as that. Loose, loose. How to come up from this and be positive....any ideas?